Find out about my books on the lifestyle of the swinger scene here. Find out new things in the blog on a regular basis.
Swinger – What it’s all about
“Swinging is harmless and makes most people who practice it very happy. Once you start, you don’t stop. “
“There is no rational reason to live monogamously. “
Bold theses? “Heaven with cream” invites you to marvel. The series describes the mentality and the world of European swingers in all their diversity.
That’s why I write
I exchange ideas with people a lot – online and of course offline. As a frequent writer, it is often easy for me to put more complex thoughts into writing.
I don’t make a profit from these books. At least not yet.
My theses
Swinging is harmless and makes most people who practice it very happy.
Once you start, you don't stop.
About me
I live with my steady partner in Berlin. For decades I am at home in the swinger and BDSM scene and also as a swinger mentor I know the questions and reservations of women and men who dare to free themselves within their relationship.
My principles in writing
Information instead of sensation.
Clear language without obscenities.
Personal decision instead of persuasion.
My theses
Swinging is harmless and makes most people who practice it very happy.
Once you start, you don't stop.
About me
I live with my steady partner in Berlin. For decades I am at home in the swinger and BDSM scene and also as a swinger mentor I know the questions and reservations of women and men who dare to free themselves within their relationship.
My principles in writing
Information instead of sensation.
Clear language without obscenities.
Personal decision instead of persuasion.
My English books on swingers’ lifestyle
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Volume 1
Swinging means happiness and freedom – if you know yourself and take the steps consistently. Many people are already following this sexual lifestyle and don’t want to go back – an independent decision should be informed and knowledgeable. Here is a description of what you should consider before taking this step.
Challenging questions and true-to-life descriptions profoundly describe an exciting world, beyond sensational press and feature films with their distorted images.
For all adult women and men who have a sexuality.
In this first volume, the polemic with which monogamous lifestyles are gladly presented as the only permissible forms of relationship is debunked.
If one takes the step to swinging, beginner’s mistakes should be avoided in dealing with envy, jealousy and being alone – or with the fact that all people also fall in love during sex. Affected people should take the step to freedom consistently, and here’s how.
Not all people should be swingers, but for many it is the right thing to do. It is explained why most people, once they have become swingers, do not want to stop.
The reader is asked open-ended questions to think about how one feels about sexuality.
Get the most comprehensive and up-to-date insights into a way of life and a scene that still many people know far too little about. The focus of the presentation is on Europe, especially Germany.
Available as Hardcover, Softcover, and E-Book,
118 pages
Heaven with Crème
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Volume 2
Swinging means happiness and freedom – if you know yourself and take the steps consistently. Many people are already following this sexual lifestyle and don’t want to go back – an independent decision should be informed and knowledgeable.
The second volume of this series is aimed at the curious and explains the swinger scene in Europe from the inside. What is CFNM, what does “male surplus” mean, and do you also meet normal people in the scene? Are there different groups of swingers? Do I have to participate in everything? Which online platforms are reputable? How do I find out if an event suits me? And is there a dress code? How do I keep up with hygiene, and what do people expect of me?
These important questions are answered in a simple way, including a few anecdotes. Excursions to various European countries and especially to the legendary Cap d’Agde with short tips for swingers trips as well as an overview of the world of BDSM complete the picture. The German-language version also includes an appendix with practical tips and regulations that are valuable for a tourist trip to Europe.
For all adult women and men who have a sexuality and fancy visiting Europe.
Available as Hardcover, Softcover, and E-Book,
199 pages
